When my husband and I decided to get married, we knew we wanted a small wedding and we also knew that most of our kids had other obligations and were living in various parts of the world at that time. So we did the next best thing and had a spontaneous backyard garden party wedding and completely shocked all of our guests who thought they were attending my husband’s birthday party!
We also went one step further. The money we would have spent on a wedding would instead go towards a honeymoon that would include all four of our young adult children and four of their friends!
How could you not take these eight with you on a honeymoon!
Many called us brave; others called us crazy and others just questioned why we would want to spend our honeymoon with our kids. We just called ourselves fortunate and excited to be able to start our new life together with some of the most important people in our lives.
We made a list of all the things that would be vital to make this a wonderful honeymoon and much-needed vacation for all ten of us: A great destination, beautiful beaches, the opportunity to have each person be able to do what they wanted to do, experiencing different cultures, having time to relax and time to explore, as well as opportunities to get together over wonderful dinners to share our day’s experiences.
This seemed to be a tall order to fill but our final decision to take a cruise turned out to be the right one. We decided that Carnival Cruise Line’s ms Victory would deliver all this and more.
Carnival’s ms Victory docked in San Juan, Puerto Rico
The itinerary was what really sold us. Traveling in early May (the only week in the entire year that our university aged kids didn’t have school or work), we didn’t have a lot of ship or itinerary choices as many cruise ships were already being deployed to Alaska, Europe and the Mediterranean. However, Carnival’s seven day Southern Caribbean itinerary just seemed to have it all. The cruise would depart from San Juan, Puerto Rico…
Isla Verde Beach, Carolina, Puerto Rico
Old San Juan, Puerto Rico
…with the first port of call in St. Thomas, US Virgin Islands…
Enjoying the spectacular beach at Magen’s Bay, US Virgin Islands
…then onward to Bridgetown, Barbados….
The sugar white sands of Accra Beach, Barbados
Excited to be in Barbados
…with the next stop in lush Castries, St. Lucia…
A bird’s eye view of St. Lucia’s beautiful Pitons
The rainforest of St. Lucia
…before heading to Basseterre, St. Kitt’s & Nevis where we would explore the downtown parks and black volcanic beaches…
Walking through the park in Basseterre, St. Kitts & Nevis
Volcanic black sand beach in St. Kitts & Nevis
…and on to our last port of call in beautiful St. Maarten, Netherlands Antilles before heading back to San Juan.
Crystal clear waters of Orient Beach, St. Maarten
Wow! Beautiful beaches? Spectacular. Culture? Absolutely. Relaxation? As much or as little as you want. Pick and choose what you want to do? There are so many choices that each person in our group was able to do what appealed to them most – from scuba diving to snorkelling to swimming, hiking and just relaxing. Time to get together and share our stories? A table for ten on the ship and conversation over dinner ensured that we had ample opportunity to find out all the exciting things that each of us had done that day.
Table for ten on our cruise
We were able to get five staterooms close to each other on the Lido Deck (one of the top decks on the ship). Since it was our honeymoon we opted for a balcony stateroom, a decision that we did not regret and probably spoiled us for all future cruises!
It was a treat to be able to open our door to our own private balcony, relax on our deck chairs while sipping on coffee and enjoying breakfast that we ordered through room service, all the while watching the ship’s arrival at our next port of call. Each evening we would relax at the end of a wonderful day to view the sunset and the islands that we passed, the water rushing by below us and the sight of flying fish skimming the waves.
Relaxing on the balcony of our stateroom on the ms Victory
The other staterooms for our party of ten were inside staterooms. While there were no windows or portholes, there was ample room for each person. The Lido deck was a great location for our group as it was near the pools and the buffets (very important for some of our kids) and central to almost everything else. Our kids didn’t really miss having a window because they spent most of their time outside of their stateroom, either on deck or doing other shipboard activities.
If you are considering taking your kids or family members on your honeymoon like we did, or just wanting a vacation getaway with your family, a cruise is a wonderful way to travel. We’ve been there and if you want some more ideas to plan your own honeymoon or vacation just call us.
In future blog posts I’ll give you some more insight into what it’s like to be on a cruise ship for a week and we’ll also showcase some of the great islands that you could visit in the Caribbean.
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